Java tribe identified with various attitudes polite, shy, hiding feelings aka do not like direct-direct,
maintain ethics speak both content and language content words and objects that talk. In everyday nature of Andap Asor, against the older will be in priority, the Java language is the language of stratified, have various levels to suit objects talk.
Javanese generally they prefer to hide feelings. An offer to smooth the sake of ethics and manners a guarded attitude. For example, during a visit and were treated to a dish. The The distinctive character of of a Javanese ethnicity is waiting welcome to taste, even sometimes reluctant attitude is able to resist the will or desire of the heart.
The Javanese are very ethically. Both in attitude and speech. To speak, a younger man should use the Java language that seem more polite smooth.
In contrast to the language used for peer or under the age of. Likewise, the attitude, younger people should be really able to maintain good ethical attitude towards people who are older than himself, in the Java language Ngajeni
Characteristic nrimo ing pandum is one of life concept embraced by the Javanese. These patterns describe the attitude of surrender paced life with all decisions are determined by God. Javanese is believed that this life there are set and can not be challenged for granted.
Every thing that happens in this life is in accordance with the will of the regulator of life. We can not avoid, especially against all that. This is said to be the fate of life. And, the fate of life is the secret of God, we as living beings can not be evasive. Javanese people fully understand the conditions that they believe that God has set everything up.
The pattern of the life of Java is unique. If we try to discover the lifestyle of Java, then there are many positive values that we get. For the Javanese, the Lord has set quota of livelihood for all his creatures, including humans. Every day we see a lot of people are out of the house, as well, a lot of birds out of the nest to make a living. Them out of the house in the morning and evening home with better conditions
Urip Ora Ngoyo
The concept of life nrimo ing pandum (ora ngoyo) further suggests that the Javanese life is not too ambitious. Go with it all to be in the lead. Not to be too ambitious to do something that obviously can not be done. Javanese people do not recommend it.
Life is already flowing in accordance with the corridor. We may accelerate the flow rate, but the rate is not too drastic. The changes are only an improvised us on a better life than before. Javanese people say the term should not ngoyo. Let life take you in accordance with the flow. Do not bring life to your energy!
To the Javanese life and the life was the same as the vehicle. He will bring us to the absolute goal. Javanese people position themselves as passengers. Vehicle or the life that leads them to a better life. They do not bring the vehicle, but was taken by the vehicle.
As the water in the river channel, if they are normal flow, then the conditions are safe and comfortable. But when the flow is forced to large, then the flow of the river is not safe anymore for life. Javanese people understand it that implements the concept of life do not ngoyo. Ngoyo means to force yourself to do something.
If we force ourselves to do something, then it is likely we will experience something less good, for example, we will be sick. The pain occurs because there is coercion of the true power we have.
Another characteristic that can not be left out is the nature of Mutual cooperation or help other people in their environment let alone more subtle nature that when we come to the remote corners of Java tribal area where the attitude of mutual cooperation will always be seen in every facet of life whether it is the atmosphere like and sorrow.
Java is the life pattern has been arranged since the ancestors. Variety of noble values of life are precious heritage noble ancestors. And, we all know it can be a form of reality. How does the existence of the java awake so strong that even today these patterns remain applicable in life.
The pattern of life can we ketemukan cooperation on mutual aid work which are widely applied in the Java community. The Javanese are very uphold a saying: same lightweight portable, bear the same weight. This is the basic concept of living together full awareness and responsibility.
We must admit that the life of Java is so specific. Of the many tribes in Indonesia, even in the world, the Javanese have a different lifestyle. The habit of living in groups led to a sense of themselves so close to each other, thus helping each other is a necessity.
They always give help to others who need help. Even with all the ways they helped someone out of trouble, especially if you or have become friends.
Ngajeni In Older People
And, we can not ignore is the attitude of Javanese life that upholds the positive values of life. In interpersonal interaction in the community, they always keep each other every word and deed not to hurt other people.
They are so appreciative of friendship so that the existence of others is highly valued as something very important. They do not want anyone else or himself suffered heartache or terseinggung by word and deed is done because for the Javanese, ajining diri ono ing lathi, ajining rogo soko Busono meaning, self esteem of his tongue (what he said), the price of clothing body
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